Saturday, March 22, 2008

The Holi Bash!!!!!

Hey guys, its holi again. Although I am not avid holi fan, but I strongly feel it’s a unique festival. There is no such festival like holi where you get up early only to get dirty, soiled and drenched. And there you are, elated with mischievous smile, eyeing for the target to splash the colors of fun and frolic. It is the only festival where you try to be in your worst old clothes. All in all, it’s an amazing festival.
COLORS!!! Given a split second to think of the first thing that comes to your mind when mentioned this word, what would you think of? Joy, Happiness, Life. Feels like someone just whispered those magic words in your ears and then rolled the magic wand over your head to take you back to those days of childhood. Absolutely fearless, carefree, enthusiastic you go back those days when blood used to rush through your veins. This is exactly how it feels like celebrating this festival of colors. This date March 22nd - 08 was my last and the first time celebrating such enthued Holi as a Bitsian .

So all the fun began one night before the actual celebration when we had a Holi wing meet with the wildest of plans being made for holi bash .(well my wing tagged as the ghotu wing but then when it comes to fun then too nobody can beat us :D ). So we were all ready to celebrate the festival of colors. Gosh!! I am still wearing them on my hands. Somehow all challenges posed by the soap companies have failed now :D. Well we had a long session of fun where all of us in the hostel came on the ground to played holi together and then we turned on the music and danced on n on . If you are thinking of a simple holi with only Gulal then Nooooo!! there were colors ,sprays,mud,dry leaves and yeah there were EGGS (was yukk made me vomit n wash my hair nearly 6 times ), .After all “GIRLS will be GIRLS” ;)and they are the best when they are like that. So everyone was dumped one by one under the water tap ,then we went out for the campus tour singing n dancing all the way :D aaj mein upar aasman neeche n yeah ruk ruk ruk oh my darlin give me a luk was the song specially sung by us dedicated to karthika :D.After that there was mad angles session at cnot :D .This was followed by snap session to freeze the moments :) and then their were some plans cooking up while karthika went to get the cam ...Yes it was Karthika's Tshirt tearing session ;) followed by fash p and dance session :D .Aah it's still paining in my back .After all the fun and frolic in the ground we came back to our room and slept like log . Well these are some of the days that we do not forget throughout our lives and the best is to make the most of them. It was again one of my most happiest moments in Bits . These are some of the precious moments which always would make you smile no matter where you are, where you go or what you do.

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Aanewaala pal jaanewaala hai .........

A sweet friend tagged me for this lovely melodious tag.. i was asked to enque some hindi songs ..... first i thought to upload a new playlist coz the existing hindi playlist had many sad romantic melodies in it and i was listenin to this one after ages .. but then i was too lazy to do that and too excited to give it a shot.. so here we go ..lets play..

Rules for the tag :
1. Put your music player on shuffle mode.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. You must write the name of the song no matter what - no cheating ;)

IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY?" YOU SAY?
Pyaar deevana hota hai mastana hota hai..
...If its not crazy then its not love :P

WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY?
Morni baaga mei bole aadhi raat ma..
...ohhoo.. cheerful Rajasthani :P

WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
Piya tose naina lage re.. jane kya ho ab aage re..
...Yes! i love to look straight in big deep eyes ;)

HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY?
Tum pukar lo.. tumhara intzaar hai..
...Yeah a bit lost in thoughts..

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE?
zindagi ek safar hai suhana
...Enjoi life to the fullest njoi the safar to the max coz u always remember how u felt during the journeys :D...

WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
Pal pal dil ke paas.. tum rehti ho..
...uffff...

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU?
Nothing gonna change my love for you..
...wow! yes, i know you love me :)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR PARENTS?
Lo aa gayi unki yaad vo nahi aaye..
...Yes! i am missin them so much..

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
Raat aur din diya jale.. mere mann mei phir bhi andheyara hai..
...Now this is amazing.. so right..

WHAT IS 2+2?
Ek pyaar ka nagma hai.. maujo ki rawani hai..
...2+2=1 (every child is special ....taare zameen par )

DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND?
Tujhse naraz nahi zindagi hairan hoo mei..
...Yes i do and try to find answers to his Qs..

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
Mere duniya mei aake.. mat ja.. mat ja...
...Yes! I hate when people i like leave .. either dont come close or stay for long..

WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY?
Dost dost na raha.. pyaar pyaar na raha..
...Amazing na how a single person changes the whole story of life hmmm..

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
Chand aahein bharega.. phool dil tham lenge.. husn ki baat chali to sab tera naam lenge..
...loll.. how come winamp knows that i wanted to be a queen !!!sigh!!!but now iam a big girl and happy with what iam today :)

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LOVE?
Chalo dildaar chalo.. chand ke paar chalo..
...mmm .. someone's fav song.. hum hai taiyaar chalo :P

WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS THINK OF YOU?
Ram kare aisa ho jaye.. meri nindiya tohe mil jaye..
...!!!sigh!!! true again.. every morning 8 am the first ques comes my way is.. slept well??

WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
Tera mera saath rahe.. dhoop ho ki chaya ho din ho ki raat rahe..
...uiii.. i was thinking bole chudiya bole kangana :P but this is one of my fav song.. beautiful..

WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
Oh re taal mile nadi ke jal mei.. nadi mile sagar mei..
...ummm.. ye no one knows where one goes after that..

WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST?
Pyaar manga hai tumhe se.. na inkaar karo...
...ohho.. ab to kuch bacha hi nahi kehne ko..

WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET?
Neele Neele ambar pe chaand jab aaye
...oooo i am highly passionate about the night sky and the moon ;)

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS?
Phoolo ka taro ka sabka kehna hai.. ek hazaron mei meri behna hai..
...Yes! iam so lucky to have most wonderful friends.. ek hazaron mei mere dost hai..

WHAT SHOULD YOU POST THIS AS?
Aane wala pal.. jane wala hai..
...Yes! cherish each moment & enjoy the life!!

well these songs left me thinking about my favourite hindi songs and i ended with a fairly long list


After this session got over i was presented with yet another set to be answered wrt the old hindi muzik i enjoy !! probably i was undergoin a test on my muzik taste hehehehe

LYRICS YOU LIKE THE MOST

k my favorite songs in terms of lyrics:
-Aaj phir jeene ki tamanna hai
-Chalo ek baar phir se ajnabi ban jaayein ham dono
-Kabhi Kisi Ko Mukammal Jahan nahin milta
-Tujhse Naraaz Nahin Zindagi, hairaan hoon main

YOUR FAVOURITE SONG ON FRIENDSHIP

-Yaroon dosti badi hi haseen hain,ye na hoto kya phir bolo ye zindagi hain

BEST SONG PORTRAYING LIFE'S EMOTIONS; ABOUT LIFE, FULL OF LIFE
-Zindagi aa raha hoon main
-Thode Hai Thode Ki Jaroorat Hai
-zindagi kaise hai paheli
-Katra Katra Milti Hai Katra Katra jeene do

SONG U R HUMMING TODAY
I have been thinking about this tag, so I am humming a whole lot of songs today :-

ONE SONG WHICH BRIGS TEARS TO YOUR EYES
Again, there is not one, but many ....
-Mujhko is raat ki tanhaii mein awaaz na do
-Yaad Na Jaye biite dinon ki
-Hoke majboor mujhe usne bhulaya hoga
-Koi Humdum Na Raha
-Waqt Ne Kiya Kya Haseen Sitam
-kasme Vaade Pyaar Wafa

A SONG WHICH GIVES YOU HOPE ,REASON TO TRY AGAIN AND AGIAN ,A REASON TO SAY THAT LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL
-Kahan tak yeh man ko andhere chalenge
-pootche hain zindagi,hamse jeene ki adaa,bole yeh raaste yaaro jaana hain kaha,ham toh hawaao pe likhte hain dastaan,ham mein hain woh hunar,chaa jaaye jaaye jaha


DWHEN YOU WANT TO BE WITH YOURSELF,SILENT AND CONTENT BUT WITH MUSIC,WITH SONG THAT WOULD BE?

Hmm ... cant say ... it all depends on the frame of mind ....

IF YOU HAVE TO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE FOR SOMEONE WITH A SONG WHICH WOULD THAT BE ?
-Hamein tumse pyar kitna
-Maang Ke Saath Tumhara

FIVE SONGS WHICH YOU LIKE THE MOST
This is the hardest. I tried hard, but couldnt shorten the list to a count of five.
-Aa chal ke tujhe
-Aanewala pal, jaane wala hai
-Tum Bin Jaoon Kahan
-pal pal dil ke paas
-phoolon ke rang se
-yeh sham mastani
-khwab ho tum ya koii hakikat
-ek ladki bheegi bhagi

And still ... it doesn't include some very very favorite songs ....
-Aajaa sanam madhur chandni mein ham
-Bekarar karke hamein yun na jaiye
-Chalte chalte mere yeh geet
-Dil ki nazar se
-Khamosh sa afsana
-Kisi Ki Muskurahaton Pe
-Mere samne wali khidki mein
-Na Tum Humen Jaano
-Neele Neele Ambar Par
-Pukarta Chala Hoon Main
-Rimjhim Gire Saawan
-Tumne Mujhe Dekha
-Yeh Chand Sa Roshan Chehra
-Yeh Raat Bheegi Bheegi
-ek roz main tadap kar
-mere samnewali khidki mein
-nakhrewali
-Huzoor iskadar bhi na itraake chaliye,Khuleaam na aanchal na leharaake chaliye

Blank........

Sometimes there are so many thoughts going on in your head that it crosses that critical threshold beyond which it becomes impossible to concentrate. The efficiency of your brain drops to near zero levels. And then comes the Blank. Suddenly the brain flushes all the thoughts away and decides to sit totally idle, probably thinking to itself, "Screw it! I have had enough!"
Its quite frustrating really. I hate the Blank.

In a peculiar way of its own, the brain takes a vacation. It stops thinking, and then goes into that hibernation (which I called the Blank). When its done with its sleep, it demands more useless/mindless activities to keep itself amused (mindless amusement, that is). ........ And then you sit idle for some more time, staring at the monitor screen, recalling what not ,like while coding my plcc assignment when i was struck with the dear dearer n dearest segmentation fault , after debugging it for just some 4 hrs I recalled a statement given by my teacher "this is the course which will separate boys from men n girls from women" n i felt really really girlish at a moment ..... but then came an idea and an idea can change your life ...did some magic ,came back to code n guess what segmenataion was gone within 4 minutes :O( well i was myself amazed -again coz of the 4 mins n 4 hrs n yeah about the heights of my stupidity for performin such a silly billy error )

guess you just need something loud to distract yourself from the getting gripped into more idleness due to the silence

I did experience this Blank and its not pretty yaar but yeah in last two days i did discover how to fight this feeling too so if u too have ever faced such thing or ever go through such a feeling (hope u dont :)) feel free to contact one n only neha for the magic ;)

Wednesday, March 05, 2008

Venus favors intelligence :P

A friend of mine recently asked me whether I had thought her boyfriend was a flirt, and a Casanova the first time I had met him ......now that all three of us are good friends and may be would be a bit biased about answering ....
It got me thinking about the nature of people.And here i present my analysis- I realised that there is a big difference between flirts and Casanovas. And even within those who flirt.Flirting is an art ,its about wit, charm, sarcasm... it is about ‘playing’ with words, with ideas and heightening the experience of the moment between two people. It is what can display true intelligence. Some of the most flirtatious people I’ve found here atleast, are either in extremely committed relationships, or are at a very comfortable distance from most people they meet.
Lots of guys also think of themselves as flirts because they keep ogling and don’t feel shy about telling girls that they are pretty, that they are beautiful. And how much they are in love with them. Flattery is not equivalent to flirting. Flattery is a very boring try if you ask me, and infact, should come across very indirectly.
Flattery on one hand it’s annoying because it is quite patronising. Like you’re trying to woo a child with nice words, with a toy or something. On the other hand, it is something that only a child would do: try to flatter someone to get something.
No, actually it isn’t. Children never, ever use manipulation and flattery to get what they want. They throw a tantrum, and say it directly. Who am I trying to fool?
It is patronising. Most STEREOTYPES project women as ‘babies’. So I wouldn’t be surprised if that is the reason why flattery is used to try to woo women. As if the idea of a compliment is to offer some bait or something, and that really puts me off.
Well again opinions vary ,i jus remembered my friend contradicting me .. she loves lukin at the life through the kaliedoscopic prism of bollywood possibilities and thus flattery is a big turn on when it comes to her and i still remember it was so much of fun presenting her with all dumb bollywood filmi isshtyle logics when she was searchin for one to steal some of the precious moments of his crush ...
the besht and typical of them being my watch has stopped wrkin ,gotto go the repair shop ,mind accompanying me n the watch starts workin perfectly at the shopkeepers doorstep ...magica lolz and she taking all these advices seriously that was one moment i rolled out laughing ...Again the point was that what i may have suggested may have not appealed her coz there lies a vast difference in our approach towards life ,may be i get appeased by something simple and elegant but she prefers something exotic and bright....All sweet romantic bollywood stuff ,the hopping around trees and more :D
There is a certain boredom and mediocrity ... yes, if I may use the word ..in this that turns me off in some way....
Where are all the French restoration immoral wit combats that came out through the drama of the eighteenth century, or the dialogues in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, or some of the most witty, flirtatious lyrics from the old Hindi film songs lost?
Indirectness, satire, wit and may be sarcasm ...these are the things that spell intelligence and charm, atleast for me. I think the tendency to give compliments and sweet-talk belongs to the far more simplistic, to some another generation. Which does not mean that I’m saying you shouldn’t tell the person directly that you genuinely admire them if you do for whatever qualities they possess or don’t possess, or complement someone for being pretty. But it shows when someone really means what he or she is saying from the heart.
“Two paths diverged in the woods, and I – I took the less travelled one,” may I say? This is something about indecision also. Till a certain time in my life, I’d envied people who were confident; for whom things came very easily. There are people who are sure of things and likewise confident because they’ve never known the options that exist -- blissful in their ignorance. There are others, who can never be confident, because they can never get over the complexity of choice. There are probably one in a million who reach the level of true confidence after having implemented the idea that completeness is in the incomplete; that decision is in indecision and perfection in imperfection: go by your personal instincts.

I have found that there is very little apparent connection between the beginning of this post and the end of this post but whatever ....
signing off
neha